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You Can Have Anything You Want
By Psychic Avalon
I am sure you have heard of the buzz concepts ‘manifesting’ and the ‘law of attraction.' If you have not, then you are in for a wonderful treat.
I first became aware of manifesting about five years ago. I was at a crossroads in my life and I was uncertain about what to do. I had recently become ill, had gained 100 pounds and was
unable to work. I also had negative family members around me and I was broke. My life felt out of control it and I felt utterly hopeless.
Some people call this depression; I call it a period of life
when life lessons are learned.
We tend to learn our most important lessons in life during times of despair or sadness. It is
almost as if ‘depression’ gets us to listen.
We can use the power of manifesting, and end the
cycle of depression or hopelessness.
Throw your dreams into space like a kite, and you do not know what it will bring back – a new
life, a new friend, a new love, a new country ~ Anaïs Nin
When my life was at a crossroads, I knew I needed to change my thought process. I ‘stumbled
upon’ a movie called The Secret and it introduced me to the Law of Attraction. This universal
law states that what we project out to the universe comes back to us; like attracts like. For
example, when we focus on our problems and how miserable our life is, we simply attract more
of those circumstances into our life.
Like the Law of Gravity states ‘what goes up must come down’, the Law of Attraction states
that ‘our thoughts become things’. Everything in the world consists of energy. Energy is all
around us, it is in every atom and cell in the Universe, and our life force is driven by energy.
Our words and thoughts also consist of energy and they put out a vibration of energy into the
Universe, and attract similar energy back to us. How we perceive everything around us is what
ultimately becomes our reality.
After watching the movie, I realized a few techniques that I needed to start to use. At the time, I
was always focusing on my problems. I would focus on how sick I felt and how I would never
overcome it. I would look in the mirror and think, “I am so fat and unattractive!” What I didn’t
realize was that my thoughts were just attracting more of those same circumstances into my life,
and that is why I was becoming more ill and gaining weight.
What we think determines what happens to us, so if we want to change our lives, we need to
stretch our minds…Heaven on Earth is a choice you must make, not a place we must find ~
Wayne Dyer
The first thing I did to change this negative pattern in my life was start to think positive thoughts
about what I wanted to change. Even when I felt sick I would say, “I am so healthy”. I started to
look in the mirror and say, “I am so slim and beautiful”! I was starting to focus on what I wanted,
instead of being overly conscious of what I lacked.
I told my sister five years ago that I will be healthy and I will be skinny. I told her that I will
have all of the abundance and prosperity that I needed. She was very supportive, but she couldn’t
understand how I would be able to achieve all of the things I claimed. I remember her saying to
me, “But you are sick and you are overweight… that is reality”. My response was that I believe
that I am already healthy, and I just know it.
I started to change my whole attitude and every day I would meditate on what I wanted. I had
this personal ‘manifesting ritual’ and it became a part of my daily life. Even though I didn’t
see the actual results immediately, I continued to believe that I would. I knew that my current
thoughts would become my reality. Sure, I had moments where I wondered how I was going
to get better or how I was going to ever pull out of the situation. But each time I quickly got
back on my manifesting path. It was all worth it, because the end result exceeded my wildest
I have numerous things still happening constantly, that I am manifesting, but my biggest success
was overcoming my illness and losing 100 pounds. After about one year of manifesting, my
whole life started to shift. I started feeling better and no one could explain it.
Our challenge, which is also a tremendous opportunity, is to open up to a literally life-changing
way of thinking ourselves into existence ~ Sol Luckman
Because I started feeling better, I began going to the gym and working out. I was getting more in
shape and my illness was disappearing. I went to the doctor and had blood work done and he flat
out told me, “Everything is balanced, you are in perfect health”. I was so appreciative. I started
to lose all of my weight and I am now 130 pounds. My body is in great shape, and I am confident
and I feel wonderful.
Because I felt better, I started working again and I even went back to school. I have an
abundance of new opportunities in my life, and every time I turn around the universe surprises
me with even more.
The negative relationships in my life are now also gone. I released them and will not allow it in
my life ever again. I actually do recommend eliminating negative people from your life. Their
energy can affect you when they wish bad stuff upon you. I am not saying that they can control
you, but I do feel that negative energy, like jealousy or envy, can be felt. Replace your negative
friends with people who support you and are sending you positive energy.
This blog is meant to share my story, but also to thank the Universe for the abundance of life.
Life is meant to be a wonderful thing, and I want everyone to share in it and enjoy it. So jump on
this train with me, let’s go places together!
Your mind is a powerful magnet that will attract to you the things you identify yourself with.
If you have sad thoughts, you will attract tragedies. If you are a good man, you will attract the
company of good people ~ Alfredo Karras
Here are the simple steps I used to manifest a better life for myself:
- Believe it. Think of something you want to manifest and believe that you can have it. For
example, a new job or a smaller waistline. You need to have passion behind what you
want, so choose something that you truly desire.
- Visualize it. You need to focus on how you feel when the manifestation is present. For
example, if you are wanting a new job, focus on how it would feel when you receive that
phone call from your new boss. Think it and feel it. Put out the energy.
- Achieve it. Some people think that they can want something, but do absolutely nothing.
This is not the case. You have to take action to achieve your goal, and then the universe
meets you half way. If you want a new job you have to apply for positions, but the
universe will do the rest.
- Appreciate it. In life, we must always have gratitude. When you receive the things that
you want from the universe, give thanks. The more you appreciate, the more you will
receive. Appreciation and gratitude attracts more and more reasons to be thankful.
See, it is so simple, yet so many people think it is hard. One of the biggest challenges is believing
it will happen, and that is what can make a person lose their focus. They think, “Well I haven’t
seen any changes yet, so it doesn’t work”, and then they get back into the rut of negative
thinking.
The worst thing you can do is to think, “Why me? Why am I suffering…?” I don’t even want to
imagine how much more negativity that would invite into your life. Instead you have to replace
that thought with a positive one: “I am so lucky and blessed, I am meant to have happiness and
life is easy”. Feel that you deserve a great life, rather than focusing on why you don’t deserve a
bad one.
As you perceive something, you give birth to a thought, and this thought now thinks. Now that it
exists, now that it has been conjured, now that it has been focused,now it vibrates. Now, by Law
of Attraction, other thoughts that are vibrationally same will come to it ~ Abraham-Hicks
I love to share my story, because it is proof that even the hardest obstacles can be changed for
the better. I was stuck in my life and I would have continued the same path, and who knows how
miserable I would be right now? I just knew that I wanted and deserved a great life.
Now, I am on a quest to help people and to teach people what I know. I feel that this is my
calling and I enjoy changing lives. About six months ago, I put energy out into the universe that I
wanted to reach more people and help more people. I didn’t stress about how this would come to
be, I just knew that the universe would come up with some way for me to share my gift.
Sure enough, I asked and I received. Three months ago, I was approached by a production
company to create a reality show based on my psychic ability and my life. I went to New York
and started filming a reel to pitch to a network. Everything has been so positive and I feel that the
universe is giving me the opportunity to show the world my gift, and to help more people.
